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Hidden within you are 5 sacred secrets of your soul, which together form a natural sustainable harmony (‘congruency’) between your physical ‘human’ self with all its psychological, cognitive, emotional, and behavioural patterns, and the consciousness of your omnipresent soulful ‘being’ self with its innate ancestral wisdom, guidance, mysticism, and magic
The five secreats represent your most congruent self. They work with specific animal spirits. Each one has a sacred meaning, message, action, energy, life lesson, pattern of disruption, and pathway to harmony
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Soulful Sovereignty, the adjective soulful is used to describe things that express strong emotion. You might enjoy soulful poetry or a saultry song full of expression
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Joyful Sincerity is all about being yourself. Sincerity is the virtue of one who communicates and acts in accordance with the entirety of their words go here to fill
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Honourable Nobilityis a social class normally ranked immediately below royalty and found in some … In practice, however, a noble family’s financial assets largely
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Coherent Truth, when you speak the truth and nothing but the truth at all times, you don’t need to play the games and weave the web of lies any time again and again and again and again
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Kind Hearted, if you describe someone as kind–hearted, you mean that they are kind, caring, and generous. He was a warm, generous and kind–hearted man
The Ego's Code Meditation
Free yourself of negativity! The Ego’s Code meditation is a powerful healing journey. Regular users of the meditation have confirmed it helps to free you of the negativity and pain that holds you back, brings clarity and dissolve obstacles that previously sabotaged success
It's free!
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Version 1 – 2021
How Congruent & Conscious Are You?
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Take a few moments to reflect on the following questions:
- What are you putting up with in your life? Where are you settling?
- What are your current challenges?
- When do you experience the most fear?
- What would you like to change in your life, but you don’t think you can?
- What do you doubt about yourself?
- How do you compromise yourself in your life?
- Where are you saying yes, but you really want to say no?
- Where are you pleasing others and who are you pleasing?
- What area(s) of your life do you avoid?
- How do you distract yourself from your challenges or pain?
- Who and/or what do you resent in your life?
- When are you unkind to yourself? How are you unkind to yourself?
Your answers reveal the patterns and themes of your incongruencies and unconscious behaviours in your life!
DO NOT make anything bad or wrong. Your thoughts, your feelings, your self-talk, your behaviours are important messages from your Soul that need your attention.
Your soul is calling! Are you ready to listen?
Version 2 – 2021
How Congruent & Conscious Are You?
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Have you ever wondered about the following:
1. Who are you?
2. How are you … really?
3. Where are you?
4. Are your choices your own?
5. What do you want to enjoy in your life?
6. How do you want to feel every day?
7. Who do you want to share it with?
8. You CAN create anything, what do you choose for you?
When you matter to you and experience the best of you, YOU MATTER.
When others experience the best of you, THEY MATTER.
When the World experiences the best of you, WE ALL MATTER.
2021
From pain
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So many people in the world feel
- Stuck
- Unhappy
- Distressed
With certain or all aspects of their life causing them to feel tired, often exhausted, angry, confused, frustrated, miserable, and stressed. They can feel trapped and unable to move forward. Sometimes there can be so many things they feel unhappy about or want to change that they don’t know which way to turn, where to start or what to do first.
… to Becoming Congruent
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Your solution is becoming congruent. This is how you become congruent. The challenge is you don’t understand why you feel this way or do the things you do, so the cycle begins again. You continue searching, looking for answers:
- A meaningful and strong sense of identity
- Strong mental health and wellbeing
- Confidence and self esteem
- Passion, drive and excitement for life
- Clarity of mind and purpose
- Inner calm and being unapologetically you
2021
Begin Your Journey
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Activating Your Congruency
Start with 5 state of the art meditations that will empower you and yield the animals within you to the outside and make you powerful inside and out always and forever
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Growing Your Congruency
Continue your journey with these spectacular challenges on your congruency. You’ll see where you are, where you want to be and together, you’ll fill in all the steps in between to bridge the gap
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Expanding Your Congruency
Finally but not least, here you are with this amazing online course, at your own pace, take your time, get to know yourself and slowly change who you were into your magnificence
2021
Activating Your Congruency
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ACTIVATION MEDITATION SERIES
Joyful Sincerity, Honourable Nobility, Coherent Truth, Kind Hearted, Soulful Sovereignty
Experience, integrate and activate the five secrets of your congruency
Takes you to a deeper level than you are now
Breathe-in each one through its corresponding meditation below
From 20 minutes per day, you can activate different aspects of your congruency
The Sovereign Bear Activation
Be Faithful & Devoted To Your SoulActivate Your Congruency Meditation
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The Joyful Hummingbird Activation
Be Genuine & Sincere To Your HeartActivate Your Congruency Meditation
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The Noble Stallion Activation
Be Free To Act For Your Highest GoodActivate Your Congruency Meditation
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The Divine Elephant Activation
Be Conscious & Aligned To Your TruthActivate Your Congruency Meditation
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The Healing Dolphins Activation
Be Kind & Caring To YouActivate Your Congruency Meditation
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2021
Growing Your Congruency
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To be truly congruent, you need to be truly conscious first
Start moving into being congruent by raising your consciousness levels first
Challenge yourself to becoming more conscious every day with daily meditations, journalling, reflecting, observing and being more aware of your own levels of consciousness. I am a coach to Board Room Executives, Senior Leaders in large global organisations, House Husbands, Housewives, professional speakers, lawyers, teachers, students and everyone in between. The point is people are people, it is not what you ‘do’ that matters, it’s who you are in your heart, in your soul and are you happy!
7 Day Consciousness Challenge
I Don't Matter ... to I MatterAvailable Now
14 Day Consciousness Challenge
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21 Day Consciousness Challenge
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2021
Your Personalised Plan To Congruency
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Activation Meditations
Step 1. Giggle up your current model of the world with activating yourself through these meditations forever and ever
Private Readings
Step 2. Get a reading. It will give you the spiritual action steps you need to take from now onwards until the end of time
Online eLearning
Step 3. Get yourself greesed up and moving your joints into a gorgeous flexibility by doing these spectacular online courses
In Person Mentoring
Step 4. In sickness and health, till death do you part, go get some mentoring, as you know you need the kick in butt
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Feb 2022
How Congruent & Conscious Are You?
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Consider the following questions and fill in the blanks:
1. I want to be ___________ but _________
2. I want to change _________ but ___________
3. I want to stop ___________ but _________
4. I want to enjoy more of ___________ but _________
5. I want to receive ___________ but _________
Your answer to ‘BUT’ reveals the patterns and themes of your incongruencies in your life!
Whereever and whenever you think, feel or act on a ‘BUT’ you are unconsciously saying “I don’t matter to me”.
However, every thought, every feeling, every action are all important messages from your Soul yearning for your attention.
Your Soul is calling!
Are you ready to listen?
Feb 2022
Sacred Secrets of the Soul
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Congruency is your rite of passage, source of divine wisdom and most natural way of being!
You don’t need to go in search of it. It is available to you right here, right now….today!
Hidden within you are 5 sacred secrets of your soul, which together form a natural sustainable harmony (‘congruency’) between your physical ‘human’ self with all of its psychological, cognitive, emotional and behavioural patterns, and the consciousness of your omnipresent soulful ‘being’ self with its innate ancestral wisdom, guidance, mysticism and magic.
The five secrets represent your most congruent self. They work with specific animal spirits. Each one has a sacred meaning, message, action, energy, life lesson, pattern of disruption, and pathway to harmony.
Feb 2022
Plan Your Journey
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Detoxing Your Incongruency
Your incongruencies, negativity and pain unconsciously block your progress. Start your journey by clearing your path of the obstacles that hold you back and sabotage your success
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Activating Your Congruency
Then, embark on a journey to explore the secrets of your soul. This meditation series takes you inward activating each aspect of your soul’s ‘congruent’ energy, sharing important messages and providing healing
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Growing Your Congruency
Continue your journey with a congruency challenge designed to build a closer connection with your soul and start bridging the gap between where you are now, and where you want to be
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Expanding Your Congruency
Go deeper with an amazing online course. Take your time, go at your own pace and truly get to know yourself. Spread joy into every aspect of your life by radiating your soul’s magnificence
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Embedding Your Congruency
Finally, liberate your soul with private support from Clayton who will help you embed the realisation your most congruent self, through his readings and mentoring programmes
Feb 2022
Detoxifying Your Incongruency
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Your incongruencies, negativity and pain unconsciously stop your progress, block your path and sabotage your success. Therefore, to create a strong foundation to build your congruent life, they must first be healed and then dissolved releasing their wisdom.
The Ego’s Code meditation (and book) is a powerful healing journey. Regular users of the meditation have confirmed it helps to free you of the negativity and pain that holds you back, brings clarity and dissolve obstacles that previously sabotaged success.
The Ego’s Code meditation is a very powerful guided process that enabled me to achieve amazing clarity in a way I never thought possible
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The Ego's Code Meditation
45 Minute MeditationGuides You Through 4 Sections
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What a Masterpiece. This meditation will help so many people connect to their heart and soul
The Ego's Code
The BookAvailable Now
The Ego’s Code meditation is a very powerful guided process that enabled me to achieve amazing clarity in a wa thought possible. MORE WORDS. MORE WORDS. MORE WORDS. MORE WORDS. MORE WORDS. MORE WORDS MORE WORDS MORE WORDS MORE WORDS MORE WORDS MORE WORDS
Feb 2022
Growing Your Congruency
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Where would you place yourself in order of priority in your life? First, second, third…last?
One of the fascinating things about people is that despite spending all of our time with ourselves, we actually spend the least amount of time present with ourselves.
Research shows that we spend 95%[1][2] of our time unconscious on automatic pilot. This affects how you see and feel about yourself (good or bad) and creates a mismatch between the innate truth of who you are and who you openly show to the world[3]. This mismatch creates a gap between your unconscious and conscious understanding of who you are and your levels of self-awareness. It often results in an inaccurate evaluation of yourself, your attitudes, your thoughts, your feelings which impacts your willingness to spend time with yourself and how congruently you live your life.
This means that our willingness to spend time with ourselves and make improvements in life is often clouded by the judgements and perceptions we have created in our mind about who we think we are, which prevent us from seeing the truth of who we really are.
To become truly congruent and bring more joy into your life, it is important become more conscious and more self-aware. This involves you spending quality time with you.
Challenge yourself to becoming more congruent every day with daily meditations, journaling, reflection, self-observation and being more aware of your own levels of consciousness.
The Congruency Challenges have been channelled to start closing the gap between your unconscious and conscious awareness of yourself. Each one has been created for you to spend quality time present with you, getting to know you…intimately!
[1] Mpg.de. 2021. Unconscious decisions in the brain. [online] Available at: https://www.mpg.de/research/unconscious-decisions-in-the-brain
[2] Soon, C., Brass, M., Heinze, H. and Haynes, J., 2008. Unconscious determinants of free decisions in the human brain. Nature Neuroscience, 11(5), pp.543-545.
[3] Alicke, M., Zhang, Y. and Stephenson, N., 2020. Self-Awareness and Self-Knowledge. Oxford Research Encyclopedia of Psychology.
7 Day Congruency Challenge
From 'I Don't Matter' ... to 'I Matter'Available Now
14 Day Congruency Challenge
Strenghtening 'I Matter'Builds Upon 7 Day Challenge
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21 Day Congruency Challenge
From 'I Matter' ... to 'You Matter'Builds Upon 14 Day Challenge
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Feb 2022
Expanding Your Congruency
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‘Clayton is like a travel guide to your Soul’
You are invited to embark on a remarkable and exciting journey – a journey into your consciousness – to connect intimately with your soul, to remember who you are, to heal your past, embrace your present and create a joy filled magical future that is wholly congruent with who you are!
The Congruent Self programme was channelled to help you navigate the different aspects, levels and dimensions of your consciousness. Each part is 66-days, with specific weekly focus, to help you deconstruct your past programming and conditioning, heal your karma, unwire your old human neurology and embed your true soulful way of being into your cells, aligning your mind with your body and your body with your Soul.
The Fundamentals
Part 1 of 366 Day Course
Online, Self-Paced
Available Now
‘I don’t matter to me’ to ‘I matter to me’
Includes the 5 activation meditations
The New Traveller
Part 2 of 366 Day Course
Online, Self-Paced
Coming Soon in Autumn 2021
Builds on The Fundamentals
The Curious Traveller
Part 3 of 366 Day Course
Online, Self-Paced
Coming Soon in Jan 2022
Mastering what is true to who you are
Builds on The New Traveller
Feb 2022
Embedding Your Congruency
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If you are committed to you and interested in working privately with Clayton on a regular basis, you can accelerate the realisation of your most congruent self with one of his mentoring programmes
You will work together on many levels – physical, psychological, neurological and soulful – taking you deep within your consciousness on an exciting journey of self-exploration.
This can be over 3 months, 6 months or 12 months
My Congruent Heart
Surrendering to My Soul
3 Month Mentoring Programme
1-on-1 with Clayton
Available Now
My Congruent Self
5 Paths to Sovereignty
6 Month Mentoring Programme
1-on-1 with Clayton
Available Now
My Congruent Life
Being a Corageous Creator
12 Month Mentoring Programme
1-on-1 with Clayton
Available Now
Feb 2022
Personalise Your Plan
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The ego's code book & meditation
Step 1. Start by detoxing your incongruency. Dissolve the obstacles that block your path and sabotage your success with the Ego’s Code Book & Meditation
activation meditations
Step 2. With each meditation adventure inward activating your congruency, obtain important messages from your soul and receive healing
Private readings
Step 3. Get a reading. Check your progress, receive spiritual direction and specific personalised action steps directly from your soul, action them and change your life
online elearning
Step 4. Immerse yourself in you by growing and expanding your congruency through a congruency challenge or online course, available through the Shop Page
in person mentoring
Step 5. Work closely with Clayton and receive regular guidance from your soul to create your most congruent joyful life
Feb 2022
Hi, I am Clayton
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Spiritual guide
Award-winning author
“There is no fear, no uncertainty and no doubt within your soul.
When you trust in your soul, the gifts of peace, kindness and congruency radiate joy into all areas your life.
Answer the calling of your soul by giving yourself the gift of you”
“Let me be your guide.”
– Clayton John Ainger, The Congruent Mystic –
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Mar 2022
From ‘I don’t matter’
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Incongruencies are painful! They can cause us to feel stuck, unhappy, distressed and unsafe in our own lives.
Sometimes the sheer volume of issues, challenges and things we want to change prevent us from being able to move forward in life. We can feel so exhausted, angry, confused and doubtful that we don’t know which way to turn, where to start or what to do first.
Your pain is real, but the more you ignore it or try to avoid it …
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…the more intense the pain will get until you are willing to give it the attention it craves.
Have you ever stopped to wonder why the same or similar things keep happening?
Everything in your life happens for a reason, good and bad. There are no consequences. When you are incongruent there is something fundamental you need to learn, to heal and to remember. When you do magic happens! Joy radiates from your soul into every aspect of your life.
It begins by making a decision that from this moment…
’I matter (to me).’
… to ‘I Matter’
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When you matter (to you), you are making a conscious choice to be, and to live, as your most congruent self. The more congruent you become, the more you will enjoy:
- Strong mental health and wellbeing
- Confidence and self esteem
- Passion, drive and excitement for life
- Clarity of mind and purpose
- Inner calm, peace and knowing …
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- Complete trust in yourself
- Harmony, joy and balance in all areas of your life
Your journey to congruency is as easy or as difficult as you choose. It requires you to navigate your destructive patterns, learn from your past, release your negativity, let go of all expectations, accept who you are and to completely trust in you knowing that your soul has your back.
This takes time.
You can support yourself by asking, one question:
‘Why am I doing this for me?”
When you can answer and then act on this question you are honouring yourself, your sacred energy and your soul!
Always act for your sacred energy and you soul!
Mar 2022
From ‘I don’t matter’
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Incongruencies are painful! They can cause us to feel stuck, unhappy, distressed and unsafe in our own lives.
Sometimes the sheer volume of issues, challenges and things we want to change prevent us from being able to move forward in life. We can feel so exhausted, angry, confused and doubtful that we don’t know which way to turn, where to start or what to do first.
Your pain is real, but the more you ignore it or try to avoid it …
…the more intense the pain will get until you are willing to give it the attention it craves.
Have you ever stopped to wonder why the same or similar things keep happening?
Everything in your life happens for a reason, good and bad. There are no consequences. When you are incongruent there is something fundamental you need to learn, to heal and to remember. When you do magic happens! Joy radiates from your soul into every aspect of your life.
It begins by making a decision that from this moment…
’I matter (to me)’
… to ‘I Matter’
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When you matter (to you), you are making a conscious choice to be, and to live, as your most congruent self. The more congruent you become, the more you will enjoy:
Strong mental health and wellbeing
Confidence and self esteem
Passion, drive and excitement for life
Clarity of mind and purpose
Inner calm, peace and knowing
Complete trust in yourself
Harmony, joy and balance in all areas of your life
Your journey to congruency is as easy or as difficult as you choose. It requires you to navigate your destructive patterns, learn from your past, release your negativity, let go of all expectations, accept who you are and to completely trust in you knowing that your soul has your back.
This takes time.
You can support yourself by asking, one question:
‘Why am I doing this for me?”
When you can answer and then act on this question you are honouring yourself, your sacred energy and your soul!
Always act for your sacred energy and you soul!