Welcome to your sacred space of

Where every soul matters every time BEGIN YOUR JOURNEYJOIN OUR COMMUNITY

Welcome to your sacred space of loving

Where every soul matters every time BEGIN YOUR JOURNEYJOIN OUR COMMUNITY

How Congruent Are You?

What do these five aspirations reveal about your incongruencies?

I want to be ___________, but _________
I want to change _________, but ___________
I want to stop  ___________, but _________
I want to enjoy more of  ___________, but _________
I want to receive  ___________, but _________

Fill in the blanks, then click on the video to find out what your answers say about you!

From ‘I don’t matter’ … 

Incongruencies are painful!  They can cause us to feel stuck, unhappy, distressed and unsafe in our own lives.

Sometimes the sheer volume of issues, challenges and things we want to change prevent us from being able to move forward in life.   We can feel so exhausted, angry, confused and doubtful that we don’t know which way to turn, where to start or what to do first.

Your pain is real, but the more you ignore it or try to avoid it …

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…the more intense the pain will get until you are willing to give it the attention it craves.

Have you ever stopped to wonder why the same or similar things keep happening?

Everything in your life happens for a reason, good and bad.  There are no consequences.    When you are incongruent there is something fundamental you need to learn, to heal and to remember.  When you do magic happens! Joy radiates from your soul into every aspect of your life.

It begins by making a decision that from this moment…

’I matter (to me).’

 

… to ‘I Matter’

When you matter (to you), you are making a conscious choice to be, and to live, as your most congruent self.   The more congruent you become, the more you will enjoy:

  • Strong mental health and wellbeing
  • Confidence and self esteem
  • Passion, drive and excitement for life
  • Clarity of mind and purpose
  • Inner calm, peace and knowing …
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  • Complete trust in yourself
  • Harmony, joy and balance in all areas of your life

Your journey to congruency is as easy or as difficult as you choose.  It requires you to navigate your destructive patterns, learn from your past, release your negativity, let go of all expectations, accept who you are and to completely trust in you knowing that your soul has your back.

This takes time.

You can support yourself by asking, one question:

‘Why am I doing this for me?”

When you can answer and then act on this question you are honouring yourself, your sacred energy and your soul!

Always act for your sacred energy and you soul!

 

Hidden Secrets

Congruency is your rite of passage, source of divine wisdom and most natural way of being!

You don’t need to go in search of it. It is available to you right here, right now….today!

Click on one of the animals to learn more …
REVEAL MY SECRETS

Hidden within you are 5 sacred secrets of your soul, which together form a natural sustainable harmony (‘congruency’) between your physical ‘human’ self with all its psychological, cognitive, emotional, and behavioural patterns, and the consciousness of your omnipresent soulful ‘being’ self with its innate ancestral wisdom, guidance, mysticism, and magic.

Each secret is held and cared for by a specific animal spirit – Sovereign Bear, Joyful Hummingbird, Noble Stallion, Divine Elephant, and Healing Dolphin.

Together each animal spirit and secret has a sacred meaning, message, action, energy, life lesson, pattern of disruption and pathway to harmony.

When fully activated, the five secrets personify and free your most congruent self.

Plan Your Journey

The following six steps are a guide to help you plan your path and journey to living your most joyful and congruent life. You can explore one step at a time, or dip in and out as you need.

It is Clayton’s intention that over time that this website becomes your website, for you to use as you need. He will continue to add exercises, courses, meditations, blogs, personal stories, mini rune readings, and channellings from spirit guides to guide you.

1. Detox

Your incongruencies, negativity, and doubt unconsciously disrupt and slow down your life’s progress.  Begin your journey with The Ego’s Code.  Free yourself of negativity, clear your path of the obstacles that hold you back and stop sabotaging your success.

GO TO DETOX

2. Activate

Then, embark on an adventure inward to explore the hidden secrets of your soul.  This meditation series works with the animal spirits, activating each aspect of your soul’s congruent energy, sharing important messages, and providing revitalising healing.

GO TO ACTIVATE

3. Grow

Continue your journey with a congruency challenge designed to heal the past, develop your conscious awareness, and build a closer relationship between you and your soul.  Start bridging the gap between where you are now, and where you are called to be.

GO TO GROW

1. Detox

Your incongruencies, negativity, and doubt unconsciously disrupt and slow down your life’s progress.  Begin your journey with The Ego’s Code.  Free yourself of negativity, clear your path of the obstacles that hold you back and stop sabotaging your success.

GO TO DETOX

2. Activate

Then, embark on an adventure inward to explore the hidden secrets of your soul.  This meditation series works with the animal spirits, activating each aspect of your soul’s congruent energy, sharing important messages, and providing revitalising healing.

GO TO ACTIVATE

3. Grow

Continue your journey with a congruency challenge designed to heal the past, develop your conscious awareness, and build a closer relationship between you and your soul.  Start bridging the gap between where you are now, and where you are called to be.

GO TO GROW

4. Magnify

Go even deeper with an amazing online course.  Take your time, go at your own pace, and truly get you know yourself.  Consciously improve your life, create happy memories, and spread joy into every aspect of your life by radiating your soul’s magnificence.

GO TO MAGNIFY

5. Liberate

Become who you were born to be.  Liberate your soul faster with a private reading, mentoring, and coaching from Clayton.  He will guide you through the channelled messages from your guides and your soul, awakening the bountiful realisation of your most congruent self.

GO TO LIBERATE

6. Nurture

Every day nurture your mental, physical, and soulful wellbeing through acts of self-kindness that will continue to raise your energy, radiate joy, bringing peace and harmony to your life. This is your soul’s invitation to be present, to be patient, to be kind, to be with you.

GO TO NURTURE

4. Magnify

Go even deeper with an amazing online course.  Take your time, go at your own pace, and truly get you know yourself.  Consciously improve your life, create happy memories, and spread joy into every aspect of your life by radiating your soul’s magnificence.

GO TO MAGNIFY

5. Liberate

Become who you were born to be.  Liberate your soul faster with a private reading, mentoring, and coaching from Clayton.  He will guide you through the channelled messages from your guides and your soul, awakening the bountiful realisation of your most congruent self.

GO TO LIBERATE

6. Nurture

Every day nurture your mental, physical, and soulful wellbeing through acts of self-kindness that will continue to raise your energy, radiate joy, bringing peace and harmony to your life. This is your soul’s invitation to be present, to be patient, to be kind, to be with you.

GO TO NURTURE

Detox

Your incongruencies, negativity, pain and doubt unconsciously disrupt and slow down your life’s progress.  They do NOT stop your progress.   The incongruent energy recirculates, heightening the disruption and pain in your life until you learn its lesson and remember who you are.

To build your congruent life, you must first learn the lesson to heal the past, this dissolves the disruptive upsetting energy and in turn releases the old wisdom you need to support you in life.

The Ego’s Code book and The Ego’s Code meditation have been channelled for this exact purpose.

Step 1

Understand the true purpose of your Ego,
then learn how to live an Ego and negativity free life.
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 … and receive a free pdf copy of The Ego’s Code paperback book

I realized The Ego's Code carried Divine energy when it began to instantly change me! Each concept and each exercise resulted in a profound SHIFT in my being, my spirit, and my soul.  It continues to move me when I open it in a crisis and need direction. It carries absolute Divine energy and power.  Thank you for writing it!

Heather Arlinghaus, Indiana, USA

Personal Trainer & Wellness Warrior

Step 2

Free yourself of negativity!

The Ego’s Code meditation is a powerful healing journey.

Regular users of the meditation have confirmed it helps to free you of the negativity and pain that holds you back, brings clarity and dissolve obstacles that previously sabotaged success.

The Ego's Code Meditation

Free Yourself of Negativity!

Live with more Joy & Happiness

Available Now

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The Ego’s Code Meditation is a profound gift to humanity!  I have found it to be an interdimensional tool that allows me to access and heal trapped trauma on many levels.  I use it frequently for deep soulful healing.  Clayton's divine calling has certainly hit the mark with this creation!

Heather Arlinghaus, Indiana, USA

Personal Trainer & Wellness Warrior

The Ego’s Code Meditation is a very powerful guided process that enabled me to achieve amazing clarity in a way I never thought possible.

Cassie Footman, UK

Speaker, Coach & Mentor to Entrepreneurs

What a Masterpiece.  This meditation will help so many people connect with their heart and soul.

Anja Thybo, Denmark

Business Coach & Mentor

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Activate

The sacred secrets of the soul have been channelled into five 20-minute meditations.  Each meditation takes you on a mystical journey inward activating one aspect of your soul’s ‘congruent’ energy.  Repeated daily use amplifies this energy, bringing new wisdom, ancient gifts and healing from your soul.

Sovereign Bear

Activate the divine courage, confidence and inner strength to be faithful to who you are.

Running time: 20-minutes

Available Now - £30

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Joyful Hummingbird

Awaken the soulful joy within you activating the truest and most genuine expression of who you are.

Running time: 20-minutes

Available Now - £30

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Noble Stallion

Release the pains of your past, activating the freedom and ease to act for your highest good.

Running time: 20-minutes

Available Now - £30

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Divine Elephant

Heal your karma, activating and illuminating the path of
your divine truth.

Running time: 20-minutes

Available Now - £30

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Healing Dolphins

Dissolve self-doubt, heal self-abuse, activate a magnified kindness
towards yourself.

Running time: 20-minutes

Available Now - £30

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The Sacred Secrets of Your Soul

All Five 'Soul Activator' Meditation Bundle

Combined running time: c.100-minutes

Available Now - £125

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The Sovereign Bear Activation

This meditation has enabled me to see myself walking through life and face challenges with the greater power, strength, and confidence. Nothing can harm me; nothing can stop me from my mission. I feel so much self-settled into my goals, plans and decisions in life.

Ralf Fischer, Austria

Engineer & Entrepreneur

The Joyful Hummingbird Activation

The background music is full of positivity. Wonderful images appear in my mind. I like the raindrops transforming into Hummingbirds. I feel my body and mind full of joy and happiness. So many beautiful memories of beloved people and event.  I love my life.

Ralf Fischer, Austria

Engineer & Entrepreneur

The Noble Stallion Activation

Letting go of my baggage from the past, becoming free, finally. What a relief. It’s such an amazing feeling to feel total freedom. Riding on the back of the majestic stallion on a vision quest of total freedom. I feel like I am overflowing of positive energy.

Ralf Fischer, Austria

Engineer & Entrepreneur

The Divine Elephant Activation

I love this meditation, such a wonderful journey with beautiful visuals and pictures. Enjoyed so much the riding on the Elephant over the bridge towards my new path of truth. For me this is a very powerful meditation, full of positivity and Clayton’s wonderful words.

Ralf Fischer, Austria

Engineer & Entrepreneur

The Healing Dolphins Activation

The healing ceremony by the dolphins touches my heart so much.  It makes me feel so much love for these wonderful beings. I am so grateful for the gift to receive healing. And finally swimming and playing around with the dolphins is pure fun. Love this meditation.

Ralf Fischer, Austria

Engineer & Entrepreneur

Grow

Where would you place yourself in the order of priority in your life?  First, second, third…last?

A fascinating observation about life is that despite spending all our time with ourselves, we actually spend the least amount of time consciously present with ourselves.   

This often results in an inaccurate evaluation of ourselves and our life
leading us down a path of self-sabotage, self-pity, and self-betrayal.   

To become truly congruent and bring more joy into your life,
it is important become more conscious and more self-aware. 

This involves you spending quality time with you.

Challenge yourself to becoming a little more congruent each day through daily meditations, conscious journaling, conscious reflection, self-observation, conscious movement, building your confidence, becoming more aware of your capabilities, strengths, and needs.

Decide to put YOURSELF first …
… and say ‘iMatter to Me’

7 Day Congruency Challenge

Free myself of Negativity &
Appreciate who I am

 

 

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14 Day Congruency Challenge

Remembering who I am &
Honouring my heart

 

Builds on 7 Day Challenge

Coming - Spring 2023

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21 Day Congruency Challenge

Living with kindness &
Opening my heart to others

 

Builds on 14 Day Challenge

Coming - Summer 2023

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Magnify

‘Clayton is like a travel guide to your Soul’

You are invited to embark on a remarkable and exciting journey – a journey into your consciousness – to connect intimately with your soul, to remember who you are, to heal your past, to embrace your present and create a joy filled magical future that is wholly congruent with who you are!

The Congruent Self programme is about ‘becoming who you were born to be.’  The programme was channelled to help you navigate the different aspects, distinctive levels, and multiple dimensions of your consciousness.

Each part is 66-days, with a specific daily and weekly focus, to help you deconstruct your past programming, understand your conditioning, heal your karma, unwire your old human neurology, unveil and embed ancient soulful wisdom, aligning your mind with your body and your body with your Soul.

– Magnify and radiate joy into every aspect of your life –

THE CONGRUENT SELF

THE FUNDAMENTALS

 

Part 1 of 3

66 Days
Online, Self-paced

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THE CONGRUENT SELF

THE NEW TRAVELLER

Part 2 of 3

66 Days
Online, Self-paced
Builds on part 1 - The Fundamentals

Coming Spring 2023

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THE CONGRUENT SELF

THE CURIOUS TRAVELLER

Part 3 of 3

66 Days
Online, Self-paced
Builds on Part 2 - The New Traveller

Coming Summer 2023

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Liberate

If you are committed to you and interested in working closely with Clayton, you can book a private reading and/or sign up to one of his mentoring programmes.

You will work and play together on many levels – ancestral, mystical, soulful, physical, psychological, cognitive, and behavioural – taking you deep within your consciousness on an exciting journey of self-exploration.

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A number of years ago I had my first reading with Clayton, and it changed my life. The information that came through from my guides resonated so strongly that it brought about a new career path aligned with my higher purpose.  My channel for creativity became more open and my ability to connect to Source more attuned. Music now flows through with ease as I recognize and work with this connection.

Clayton's connection is strong and his ability to translate information from spirit into practical action steps for life is unparalleled.  I have had a number of readings since and always look forward to the wisdom and guidance that comes through.

Highly recommended!

Craig Young, Ontario, Canada

Internationally Recognised Composer

Nurture

When you are kind to you, you are saying #iMatter to me.  Acts of self-kindness raise your energy, radiate joy, bring peace and harmony to your life.  They are also the essential seeds to mental health, physical and soulful wellbeing.

To get you started Clayton has created a FREE list of 30 nurturing practices for you to test out and trial in your life as you choose.

This is your soul’s invitation to be present, to be patient, to be kind, to be with you.

#iMATTER TO ME

#iMATTER TO ME

It’s free!

Clayton has been a coach, a friend, and a spiritual advisor to me for the past year.  What I have gained from working with him has enhanced my life immeasurably.  Clayton has taught me about awareness, acceptance, letting go and rebirth.  He has helped me let go of the mindsets/emotions that hold me in my past mind/body which no longer serve me. Now I am mindfully creating a new life for myself. 

I am present, I am creative, I am filled with love, my heart is open to all opportunities and my negative triggers from the past are a fleeting memory with no emotional reactivity. I feel free thanks to Clayton.

Clayton keeps me honest with myself in a kind but direct manner.  He calls it like he sees it from an incredibly intuitive space and for that I am grateful.  If you are feeling brave, honest and ready to transform your life…. I recommend Clayton for your guide into your most abundant future you. 

With love and gratitude.

Mindy Mays, USA

Holistic Coach & Meditation Teacher

Personalised Plan

Step 1

 

THE EGO’S CODE

Start by detoxing your incongruency.  Dissolve the obstacles that block your path and sabotage your success with the Ego’s Code Book & Meditation

Step 2

 

ACTIVATION MEDITATIONS

Embark on a mystical journey inward activating each aspect of your soul’s congruent energy, receive messages, revitalise healing

Step 3

 

PRIVATE READINGS

Book a reading.  Check your progress, receive important honest unfiltered guidance and specific personalised action steps to change your life

Step 4

 

IN PERSON MENTORING

Work closely with Clayton and receive regular guidance from your soul to create your most congruent joyful life … and more

Step 1

THE EGO’S CODE

Start by detoxing your incongruency.  Dissolve the obstacles that block your path and sabotage your success with the Ego’s Code Book & Meditation

Step 2

ACTIVATION MEDITATIONS

Embark on a mystical journey inward activating each aspect of your soul’s congruent energy, receive important messages, and revitalising healing

Step 3

PRIVATE READINGS

Book a reading.  Check your progress, receive important honest unfiltered guidance and specific personalised action steps to change your life

Step 4

IN PERSON MENTORING

Work closely with Clayton and receive regular guidance from your soul to create your most congruent joyful life … and more

Hi, I’m Clayton

I play many different roles in my life – dad, husband, friend, mischievous playmate, student, teacher, spiritual guide, mentor, ceremony leader – all bring me joy, because of the embrace and majestic dance with my Soul.

I have learned there is no fear, no uncertainty, and no doubt within your soul. When you trust in your soul, the gifts of peace, kindness and congruency radiate joy into all areas your life. Answer the calling of your soul by giving yourself the gift of you.

Let me be your guide.

– Clayton John Ainger –

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Words of Praise

I have been working with Clayton for many months now and I can confidently say my life has changed in the most magnificent way since we met. Through working together, I have noticed not only a difference in my own spiritual well-being, but that of my friends and loved ones. I have absolutely no hesitation in recommending his services to anyone who seeks answers of themselves and the universe we inhabit.

Jack Cleeve, UK

Doctor of Chiropractic

Clayton John Ainger is one of my most trusted confidants. I have had the pleasure of working with him over the past several years and his integrity, insight and spirit are of the highest order.

Clayton has helped guide me through some very challenging times into a truly wonderful phase of my life. He can always be counted on when I need a divine perspective to help me see my true self.

Clayton guides me with the utmost integrity, and I consider myself extremely fortunate to call him my spiritual guide, coach, and friend.

Jodi Gandy, Indianapolis, USA

Realtor

Clayton is a spiritually connected and gifted individual from on high. Having studied extensively and experienced many individuals on my travels and in my business life I do not speak lightly when I say I believe Clayton is one of the best advisors one can find. He has helped me through many major events in my life and foretold the meeting of my now wife and accurately predicted both my children... Thank you!

Justin Samuels, Connecticut, USA

CEO

Clayton John Ainger has been generous and unwavering in his commitment to me as a business coach and spiritual mentor. Working with me through a tailored process, the pathways between my inner identity and my presence in the outer world were restructured. This has resulted in the development of my legacy work in dignity, security, and climate challenges. Clayton’s heart-centred and pragmatic approach, and the depth of his spiritual insight and knowledge, was foundational to uncovering and structuring this next phase of my life’s work and continues to be so.

Maxinne Leighton PhD, New York, USA

Director of Marketing and Communications

Clayton John Ainger appeared in my life as a wonderful friend, filling our delightful time with incredible laughs and awesome energy. Our connection switched to a divine and pure guidance in my life revealing how much he could open a whole new field of "vision and remembering" to someone. Thanks to Clayton's light, I could be more grounded, keep more confidence in my life path, past and future, and experience a closer alignment with the flow of the universe on a daily base. Incredible impact.  No words can describe how deep is my gratitude.

Marc Amerigo, France

UltraPerformance through Human Empowerment

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The Ego's Code Meditation

Designed to complement the book, The Ego’s Code, this meditation is a powerful 45-minute healing journey that helps to detox the negativity from your life and improve your self-worth so you can live with more joy and happiness.

Recorded in 432 Hz, the music in this meditation has been channelled to help you release and heal negative energy blockages, distress, and unhappiness.  As you heal, you will experience a deep inner transformation that reunifies your mind with your body, your body with your soul, and your soul with nature.

The Ego's Code Meditation guides you through four sections - grounding and merging your consciousness with Mother Earth; retrieving insightful learning from the World Tree of Consciousness; releasing the negativity that has been holding you back; and receiving a lost part of your soul, which will reintegrate fully.

It's free!